As a top Los Angeles-based matchmaker since 2008, I have had the privilege of putting thousands of couples together who went on to get married and start beautiful families. And the other side of the coin is that I have also had the vantage point of seeing from behind the scenes what keeps elite men and extraordinary women single. So, I put together a list, and here it is:
6 Reasons You’re Still Single
- You’re not willing to make room or reprioritize your life for someone.
- You think that a relationship (if you hit it off) should go fast, and you have no patience and want an instant boyfriend or girlfriend.
- You’re stuck on a fantasy where no one will ever be good enough to please you.
- You’re stuck in your ways. Your way of doing things, on your schedule, and you like it that way. You’re not willing to change it up.
- You have all these preconceived ideas about other single people, and you’re fearful. You’re suspicious about why he’s single rather than being hopeful and excited to meet a great guy. You’re like, “Hmm, wonder what’s wrong with him?” Or you’re afraid that women are only after your money instead of wanting an authentic connection.
- Last but not least: You are so stuck in your belief (whatever that is) that you won’t open up to new ways of doing things.
And as we get older, everything I mentioned above gets worse. Unless you make up your mind to continue to grow, evolve, improve, and stay happy and excited about the process.
I know what I’m saying is true — because I have been able to pair countless elite men and women looking for love with a 98% success rate.