Ladies beware, there are many men out there who will appear to be interested in you, but how can you tell the difference between the ones who really want to get to know you from the crafty ones who just want to get you into bed….
- He doesn’t ask any questions about you. Other than, “What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?” And other unimportant shallow questions.
- He’s all over you WAY too soon.
- He makes sure the drinks keep coming.
- He calls last minute.
- He tries to get you over to his place as soon as possible.
- He doesn’t respect your “no” the first time you say it. If you have to say “no” twice, get the hell out of there and don’t look back.
- He won’t make an effort to travel out of his way to see you.
- He won’t make any original or special plans.
- He looks around the room (or over your shoulder) as your talking.
- He makes no attempt to have a deep or meaningful conversation.
In closing, these guys are often the cutest and the most charming. So we want to believe them, we want to trust them and sometimes we tell ourselves, “who cares, it’s fun!” But is it really fun to be treated like an after thought or a toy? It’s no fun when he doesn’t call you anymore. So spot these guys and turn and run.