The Questions I Coach Women to Ask—So My Clients Only Meet the Right Kind of Women

As an elite matchmaker, I work exclusively with successful, high-status men who don’t have time to waste. These are men who know what they want—and more importantly, what they don’t. They’re not looking to sort through a sea of guesswork, mixed signals, or immaturity. That’s where I come in. My job isn’t just to introduce beautiful women—it’s to ensure that every woman in my private network is smart, self-aware, and relationship-ready.

In one of my recent videos, I shared two questions I train women to ask men the moment they meet them in real life—before they ever consider handing over their phone number. These questions aren’t just advice; they are a glimpse into how I guide and shape the women I represent. The kind of woman who asks these questions is exactly the kind of woman my male clients want to meet.

Two Questions That Reveal a Woman’s Standards

Here’s what I tell the women I work with:

1. “Are you currently involved with anyone?”

I teach them to use the word involved—it’s intentionally vague. The way a man interprets that question reveals a lot. A man who is truly single will give a direct answer. One who’s hiding something will dodge, joke, or hesitate. I tell women not to help or soften the question. Just ask, then listen. This kind of discernment is essential to spotting red flags before they become problems.

2. “So what is it you’re looking for?”

I train women to ask this upfront, with confidence—and then stay quiet. No justifying, no explaining, no filling in the silence. A man’s answer tells you everything. If he’s serious, it’ll show. If he’s just looking to pass the time, that becomes clear too. A woman who asks this question is signaling that she values her time and is dating with intention.

Why This Matters to My Clients

The women I accept into my private matchmaking network aren’t just attractive—they are intentional. They’re the kind of women who vet men with clarity and confidence. They don’t fall for charm alone, and they don’t waste time in casual flings. When my male clients meet them, they’re meeting women who have already proven they value honesty, directness, and mature communication.

This is what sets my matchmaking process apart. I’m not running a dating app or a swipe-right free-for-all. I am curating a refined, hand-selected pool of women—each one vetted, coached, and emotionally intelligent. I know what my male clients expect: women who are elegant, smart, grounded, and relationship-focused. That’s exactly who I deliver.

A Seamless, Elevated Matchmaking Experience

You can watch the video where I explain this in under two minutes: Watch the YouTube video here

My clients don’t have to guess who’s ready for a relationship or sift through vague intentions. I’ve already done that work. I’ve spoken with each woman. I’ve asked the hard questions. I’ve trained her to do the same. The result is a seamless introduction to women who are serious, sincere, and genuinely excited to meet a man who’s equally intentional.

This is not about quantity—it’s about quality. Every introduction is precise. Every match is curated. That’s why successful men trust me to lead this process. When I introduce a woman, you can be sure she’s the right kind of woman: confident, kind, sophisticated, and completely clear on what she wants.

If you’re a man who values excellence in every area of your life, your personal relationships should be no exception. I’m here to make sure they aren’t.